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Leaving ....but not for the usual reasons


hball
24th May 2009, 09:12 PM
For anyone interested I thought I would post a little about our experience in NZ, perhaps it will offer an alternative to some of the other leaving posts.

We arrived here in 1995. The UK was in a mini recession and we had lost all the equity in our home in Southampton when we sold at a loss. The alternative was to rent it out, but we were by then too exhausted with the emigration process to even consider it. So, arriving in Auckland we had the total amount of $4000, two teenage kids and a Transit Van full of our worldly possessions!

But, hey, all would be OK as Hubbie was a qualified Plumbing and Heating Engineer - that was how we obtained residency.

Yeah right!!!! While he had to have the qualifications to get in to the country once here he was mysteriously UN-qualified! However, six companies offered him work, but obviously not on qualified rates!!! Funny that!!! Lesson number one; welcome to the world of being an immigrant and an outsider.

The $4000 soon went on rent/bond/fridge/beds etc. So we became the Boswells, every Friday, having all obtained jobs, even the kids (Macdonalds and the Warehouse) we chipped in our money to keep our dream going. Both OH and I had two jobs, OH working on the building sites during the day and cleaned pubs in the city from 4 - 6am.

Then the kids decided that they missed their friends and life back in the UK, and so went 'home'. Extreme heartache followed :wah. That left only OH and I, and so to cheer ourselves up we decided to move rentals into a new apartment with fabulous city views, complete with cream carpets and stylish kitchen, not that we could afford it but don't you always say... "Once the kids have gone..."!

And then, DD decided to return after some six months and the luxury apartment went west - hardly the same with teenage girl encaved in the spare bedroom and so another rental move to a more 'normal' 3 bed house.

By now two years had gone by, we had begun to establish ourselves and formed good networks when we found a one bed cottage on a dream site. It took four months to get the deposit and a mortgage of 15%. DD moved in with friends and started flatting properly, while DS was still having a whale of a time back in the UK! (We don't need to go there!!!)

Over the next few years we spent every dollar we earned on building our dream home over and around the little cottage. And then, as pressures eased we were able to take advantage of property growth and purchased some rentals. Now we were truly Kiwis, this being the usual way to save for your retirement here in NZ!

And soon we were bored!!!!!!

Financially secure, nice cars, nice holidays we were truly living the dream we had set out to achieve all those years ago. But we were still ambitious and so we looked for another challenge, finding it in a small resort in Fiji which needed a little TLC and some professional marketing.

And so we are leaving NZ - perhaps not forever, but definitely for a number of years. Our kids are now both here and married with dreams of their own, luckily Fiji is only three hours away - the same number of hours it takes to drive from Auckland to Taupo! Funnily enough, friends who have traveled the same journey as us, having arrived here in the mid nineties, are also talking of new adventures, most considering the more usual step of crossing the ditch.

NZ is a wonderful place. We love it and appreciate everything we have been able to achieve here. Nowhere is perfect, but this place worked for us.

:yes

Kea
24th May 2009, 10:31 PM
How exciting! Hope you will continue to update us on the progress and post info on the resort. Fiji is high on our list of places to visit/work/live.

Best of luck in the new adventure.

Joolz

JandM
24th May 2009, 10:34 PM
Absolutely.:nice1

Kanga
24th May 2009, 10:36 PM
Wow!!

Arriving in NZ with $4000 14 yrs ago and getting to the stage you're at (saw the link for your place that's for sale ;) ) is an incredible achievement; I've no doubt you'll make a go of it in Fiji- Good Luck :nice1

Kerry and David
24th May 2009, 10:56 PM
What a great refreshing and inspiring post. Good luck with your new adventure :)

tea drinker
24th May 2009, 11:06 PM
Thanks for your honest post, always good to hear about NZ life from all sides.
Your Fiji adventure sounds exciting, as others have said keep in touch and let us know how things are going.

andrewp
24th May 2009, 11:40 PM
An amazing post. Thanks for sharing that with us. Good luck with your next adventure...

victoria24
24th May 2009, 11:42 PM
if you need anyone to house sit in fiji, give me a shout :D

Shones
25th May 2009, 04:12 AM
:nice1 Wow, all that hard work paid off!!
Good luck with your venture in Fiji

dusk
25th May 2009, 11:24 AM
Best of luck - let us know how you get on with the resort, some of us might need a holiday in the sun soon ;)

mylesdw
25th May 2009, 01:22 PM
Pretty brave decision I reckon; let's hope Commodore Frank lets you keep it. Are you fully booked for the next coup :-)

thewoodies
25th May 2009, 03:42 PM
lovely post - i spent some of my chilhood in fiji - and one of my ambitions is to visit - post where you are and how its going - in a couple of years you may get a visit from thewoodies :bluebanana:bluebanana:bluebanana

hball
25th May 2009, 06:02 PM
Thank you for all your best wishes. As soon as the interim website is up (should be this week) I will post a link, and we will create some deals for anyone wanting to come out for the diving/fishing/cocktail drinking and generally blobbing out!!!

mylesdw - don't believe everything you read in the media!!! Frank won't take our resort away, he wants us there to increase tourist revenue. Besides which, if he wanted a resort the brand new Intercontinental which opened a couple of weeks ago would be a much better prize!!!

mylesdw
26th May 2009, 10:05 AM
Frank won't take our resort away, he wants us there to increase tourist revenue. Besides which, if he wanted a resort the brand new Intercontinental which opened a couple of weeks ago would be a much better prize!!!

I wonder how many Rhodesian farmers said the same thing.

Wonderbob
26th May 2009, 02:30 PM
I wonder how many Rhodesian farmers said the same thing.

Well said. We used to go almost annually to Fiji but am giving it a wide berth until democracy is restored, Apparently Frank is promising this by 2014, yeah right!.........Running a country at the point of a gun is simply not acceptable in the 21st century, and no amount of sanctions will shake that guy into changing his mind, it's dictatorship, nothing less. I was in another pacific island last week for a short holiday and was amazed at the number of people (like us) staying at the resort who said "yes we usually go to Fiji, but not now democracy has been overthrown". Fiji is a dodgy place right now, no mistake about that.

GrumpyGoat
26th May 2009, 03:03 PM
Good luck hball!

Fiji is warm and beautiful.

Thanks for posting your story. It was inspirational. Rags to riches --NZ style.
I have been somewhat miserable--we left successful lives to start over and I have been feeling like we were 18 again (and without Daddy's money this time :wah)

I have been feeling so dejected (and just plain poor here) that it is nice to be reminded that this is temporary.

Your story showed me that you CAN successfully rebuild your life--even starting on $4000. Good job!!:clap

Thanks for sharing!

JandL
27th May 2009, 01:32 AM
Good luck, where in Fiji are you going?

Sheldon
27th May 2009, 02:43 AM
I wonder how many Rhodesian farmers said the same thing.

Ah yes, Robert Mugarbage was knighted in 1980. Don't believe everything a crooked maniacal dictator tells you:cheers

napiers
27th May 2009, 04:37 AM
Good luck with all your plans - I know that if I gave him even so much as a sniff my OH would move to Fiji like a shot. It would be more for nostalgic reasons than anything I think as he did most of his growing up there, in a resort when his parents decided to move from NZ :D!

If I manage to pin him down I'll show him this thread as I'm sure he'll be interested in your plans and in what people are saying. He's still got loads of friends there and is pretty good at keeping up to date with what's going on.


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