Moorf
25th July 2005, 10:42 AM
Sooo many people have said "try Oz" to us, but I'm afraid (despite being reassured to the contrary) that I can't get past the creepy crawly situation there :no
mattford
25th July 2005, 03:31 PM
coming to this thread a little bit late, but.. the first bombing in London made me wish i was back where I lived (which was london), more from a feeling of solidarity than anything. one of the things i was chided about before i left for NZ last year was that i would be "going to sit on the sidelines". i really took against that, but seeing what happened in London I did end up feeling out of it and wishing i was back with friends there. now there's been a second bombing, and, yes, i still want to go back there and wave my fists with everyone else at the people who are committing these dreadful crimes.. over time, however (possibly even more bombings), i think i will probably feel that i'm glad that i'm here..
michala
25th July 2005, 05:13 PM
I emigrated here form London one and half years ago with my kiwi husband, and every so often I have logged onto this forum. I have just returned from the uk after a months holiday and I experienced very mixed feelings when I was there.
I was communting into London for a week on the underground and taking that train journey every morning, what with the sweltering heat and moody commuters it made me feel grateful that I no longer have to suffer these morning and afternoon tourments. Plus, I was 3 months pregnant and did wander how these pregnant women do it day in and day out commuting to work by tube.
I did feel excited about being back in London again, despite the hussle and bussle I realised that I missed the 'buzz' of London, not just London, but the local areas too, there are always so many people about which makes atmosphere, and that I feel is what NZ sometimes lacks and I miss.
I was also there when we won the bid, I felt very proud but also sad and gutted that it's not 'my home' anymore, then there were the bombs... of which I am pleased that come Monday morning I didn't have to brave the train journey, however, I still have most my family and friends commuting into London everyday, and dread turning the news on to hear that it's happened again.
Auckland I do not find to be a very exciting city, however, if I had lots of family and friends around me then I would not always be looking for external entertainment. My friends and family played a big part in my life back in the UK, and beautiful scenery, nice beaches and warmer weather has not really replaced that or come close to it. I have made some friends here but yes, I agree it takes years to build decent relationships, I would defintly love to have some English friends too but have found it hard to meet any.
I am also 4 months pregnant now and since flying back to nz I've been a little low, missing family and friends to share my first pregnancy with. My first year of being here was very up and down, but recently I thought that I was over the worst, perhaps this little dip is the symptom of pregnancy, or just another dip in the emotional rollercoaster that visited me last year.!
It's nice to read how other people feel, so thanks for all your postings.
Michala
Carol
25th July 2005, 06:51 PM
Michala.......
My brother in law and sister in law live just where you are - Dannemora - in Moy Place.
They have two of the most gorgeous s in the world - well OK I'm a little biased.
I am certain if I got in touch with them they could introduce you to some friendly folks......and by the time your wee is born my oldest niece could be a possibility for babysitting.
PM me if you want their deatails.....
Carol
jubjub
25th July 2005, 07:29 PM
Michala, I am just along the road from you in Pakuranga, and am also pregnant, nearly 5 months. If you fancy meeting up, send me a PM.
I am not working at the moment, as it was not worth getting a job, just to go on maternity leave!
Carol
25th July 2005, 07:56 PM
ah - there you go!
This forum is amazing isnt it!
:clap :yes :nice1
DLW
26th July 2005, 04:18 PM
Hi
I'm quite jealous :mrgreen: of all of you who live in one of the large cities and your get togethers!. I'm told there is a huge number of Brits :bobby in the Papamoa / Tauranga / Mount Area...where are you all?
If there is anybody in this area who fancies meeting up for a drink, as is done in Wellington, ChCh and Auckland, give me a shout.
:cheers
DLW
Anybody out there? HELLO HELLo HELlo HEllo Hello hello!!!!!!!!!!! (This was supposed to resemble an echo.....just in case anyone missed that!!!!!) :uhoh
At this rate I might be travelling the 100's of k's just to meet some like minded folk and gatecrashing a Wellington get together!!! :laugh
Marie P
26th July 2005, 07:53 PM
Hello ......I can hear you .....as soon as this house sells we hope to move to Tauranga so we will be able to meet you.
Cheers ,
Marie x
Carol
26th July 2005, 08:50 PM
Anybody out there? HELLO HELLo HELlo HEllo Hello hello!!!!!!!!!!!
who said that?
;)
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