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Kim39
2nd December 2005, 07:34 PM
:clap Well we have been here now for 1 month today and boy has it flown. I can remember waiting for a buyer in the same space of time in the UK and jeeze it dragged:( Anyway in the last 4 weeks we haven't really got very far regarding somewhere to live, as we decided that what we required was plenty of chillout time to recover from all the stress that we had gone through in the UK ref: house selling in a totally flat market. Ok, i have a job all lined up with a starting date of 12th Dec, but nowhere to live as of yet. We have seen a few rentals that we have taken a shine to, and still have one to view tomorrow in Howick, so here's hoping we can get sorted over the next 24hrs. Sorted ourselves out with Bank accounts...plug the ASB here, they have been totally in the word of a kiwi...awesome and cool, so i would definately recommend them as they also have some wonderful rates for investments and simple accounts, take a look, you never know what they'll offer. We have sorted cars, i have just purchased a Toyota Prado, and Elaine a Honda CRV, so we no longer have to rely on hire cars.

So the last 4 weeks has taken us from here in Cambridge(staying with friends), down to Diny and Mark's at Ashhurst in the Manawatu. Whilst here in Cambridge, we have been across to Raglan...beautiful, trip to the Waitomo caves,which we thought it was a slight rip-off, but they are catering for the tourist i suppose. Been out and about in the locality looking at sections for sale in stunning scenary and enjoying the warm spring sunshine. Took a trip down to Rotorua and across to Tauranga, paddled in the warm waters and chilled on the goldon white sands near the Mount....ah bliss. Done a bit of Horse trekking, we started out as the Magnificent 7, but ended up as the 3 Amigo's, various individuals, not naming names, totally lost it even before the horse's had been untethered:laugh In fact the wife...oop's, renamed the place Terrror mountain instead of Magic mountain as it was on top of a big mountain and she is terrified of heights, no chance with the horse up there then. But in hindsight we look back and have a laugh over it.

So after the first 10 days we moved down to the Manuwatu, Diny looked after us very well, in fact we felt part of the family. Had enormous help from Mark and the Queen. Let us come and go as we pleased. Went to see another depot from the company i am going to work for, they offered me a position down there, but something was missing unfortunately, so we have returned north, but whilst there,we took in a little run to Napier and returned through Havelock North, now there's a place i would like to live, out of our reach though. Lovely scenary down there, wonderful feeling driving through the Manuwatu Gorge. Been introduced to the wonderful game of 4 square by Fergie and Hen, oh i almost forgot Mark, who calls himself King of 4 square. We tried to accept the Manuwatu region for settling down as it is a little cheaper than further north, but it wasn't to be.

We have found that the kiwi's are very friendly and helpful, they'll even go out of their way to help more than you can imagine. Our personnel banker even tried to get us an advance of NZ$33000 for the purchase of the cars without any security. Didn't work, but the thought was there. Place we have bought the cars from allowed me to take my car off the forecourt for a paltry sum of NZ$640, just paid the balance off yesterday, now would that happen in the UK? i don't think so.
We have had a rough ride along the way though, and that will come in a seperate thread in the finacial section of the forum, regarding the ineptness of the british banking system as well as the international system.

Unfortunately though, in our attempt to start a new life over here there is some sad news. A few may remember me mentioning in another thread about my sister who gave me here blessing to make the move here, although she was diagnosed with Breast and Spinal cancer only 8 -10 weeks ago. Well yesterday she lost her short, but brave fight against the disease:no so this has taken the shine off what would have been a blissful 4 weeks. Have spoken to my dad, and the opinion from himself, and my brother in law is that i shouldn't return for her funeral. They feel i have to think of my family as they are the people who should come first and they feel should i return it would only delay our fresh start here in NZ. I can only say that i have the utmost respect for their requests.

Anyway i will update again probably at the 2 month stage and once i have sorted my computer out i will post some pic's from the past month.


Kim

Smiler
2nd December 2005, 07:45 PM
Kim

I'm sorry to hear about your sister, I remember your previous posts about the situation and I think you have made the difficult but correct decision not to go back for the funeral etc. I made the same decision when my BIL died and we had been here 3 weeks.

It's good to read that you are getting out, seeing and making all those important decisions, where to live, what car etc. :laugh :laugh and I love seeing the pics too.

Did you make an offer on the house next to Jubjub?

Keep on posting and enjoy the next 4 weeks as much.
Deborah & Gary

kiwidebs
2nd December 2005, 07:59 PM
Kim

So sorry to hear about your sister. I bet you feel every one of those 10000-odd miles away at the moment.

Wow, you guys have packed alot into 4 weeks. No wonder it's flown by. Wouldn't it be funny if you ended up living next door to Jubjub, FG and wee Andrew!! :laugh

Hope you find somewhere to settle before you start work.

Debs

StevieD
2nd December 2005, 10:26 PM
Good post Kim, only echo what the others have said re- sister and what we spoke about last night.

Take care

Steve, Jan and kids

kiwidollie
2nd December 2005, 10:51 PM
So sorry for your loss Kim.

You are doing the right thing - your sister knew what your new life in New Zealand meant to you and I'm sure wherever she is now she will be happy in the knowledge that you are giving it your best shot.

There are always going to be times when the pull from those you've left behind in the UK will make your heart hurt but be strong and keep your chin up.

All the very best to you Elaine and the girls.

Alison and Neil x

femke
2nd December 2005, 11:17 PM
Really sorry to hear of your loss, its never easy losing someone we love.

Had to laugh about the horse trek :laugh sounded very similar to us, one person didn't even get on the horse, everything was a bit too high up for my liking, especially the horse :laugh
Have to say Havelock is a great place to live, we have been here just over a year now, had a few teething problems in the beginning, mostly from our 14yr daughter.
Can i ask what you meant when you said Havelock was out of your reach?
Moira

katandbob
3rd December 2005, 12:08 AM
Hi Kim & Family, my thoughts are same as above, regarding your sister, you obviously have a loving family, as to the rest of the post, I look forward to seeing pics of the 3 amigos, etc.

and the financial post (always a priority) and your thoughts on Removal firms too - when your stuff arrives.

take care,

Kat

K&CS
3rd December 2005, 01:59 AM
So sorry to hear about your sister. Must be hard for you being so far away.

Glad everything else is going well for you and look forward to hearing your next update.

Kate

zardell
3rd December 2005, 03:02 AM
So sorry to hear of your loss,Kim. Our thoughts are with you and Elaine and the girls.

Heres hoping you find the right rental soon - I'm sure you will and it will make coming 'home' after a hard days work feel extra special. Steve says to tell you that after you have settled in, he would be interested to know your thoughts on the works side of things. He says a piccie of your truck would be good so he can see what tackle you've got.........Oh Elaine,dont ask - it must be a man thing :roll

Looking forward to your next posts.

Good luck in all you do.

Speak soon,

Julie n Steve

x

jo b
3rd December 2005, 05:58 AM
Kim,

great to hear you are settling well. And that you have found additonal work with the beach body guard thing!!!!

very sorry to hear about your sister, her cancer must have been very aggresive, to take something from her quick death thankfully she didn;t suffer for months with the disease. My prayers go out to you and your family.

Take care

Jo

marcia
3rd December 2005, 07:36 AM
Great informative post Kim - always good to be able to follow peoples stories on the other side.

Really sorry to hear about your sister (have pm'd you about it!) Big hugs from us.

Looking forwardto more of your updates.

The NW meet tomorrow is gonna seem really strange without your grinning face and tongue sticking out!!1 And what am I gonna do without Nicola and Hayley to babysit Emerson???????????

Take care

Marcia, Kev and the boys

Diny
3rd December 2005, 10:07 AM
Great update mucka !!!! It was great to have the 'Bailey' clan staying with us - it's been pretty quiet since you left.

Sorry to hear about your sis, I spoke to Mark after speaking to you yesterday and he send on his thoughts to you.

More post arrived for you today so I'll get it sent up - get that spare room ready for our stay between Christmas and new year !!!!!!

Diny

StevieD
3rd December 2005, 07:43 PM
Bailey??!!!! There must be a story behind that one Diny! :)

Babette & Andy
3rd December 2005, 10:59 PM
Great update Kim, can't believe it's been 1 month already! It will be so strange without the 4 of you and Marie's 5 at the NW meet in a couple of hours. Most of the original NW crew have now made THE move - for the rest of us our time will come I know :yes

So sorry to hear about your sister. You're a very strong family and even in her darkest hours the fact that she (and your family) supported your move 100% speaks volumes. Hope you get some comfort knowing she's now without pain, and didn't have to suffer for too long once the diagnosis was made. Best wishes to your family.

With regards to Howick - that's where Linda & Ali live isn't it? Bet they would be happy if you moved in locally.

Anyway, Hugs to your girls - like Marcia said - we'll miss them looking after the little ones at the meet, and BIG hug to your rock, Elaine :clap

Babette

Diny
4th December 2005, 05:52 AM
Bailey??!!!! There must be a story behind that one Diny! :)


One day Henry referred to Kim, Elaine and the girls as 'The Baileys' (well it sounds like Brierleys) - it just kind of stuck after that.

Diny

Kim39
4th December 2005, 02:43 PM
Can i ask what you meant when you said Havelock was out of your reach?
Moira

Moira

Just viewing the real estate companies sites made us realise it was out of reach of our pocket, but if you know different then let us know. We'll be looking for a four bedroom place within a realistic budget. PM if you can help.

Kim

bob_the_engineer
4th December 2005, 04:26 PM
We were so sorry to hear about your sister kim, our hearts go out to you and your family, what an awful time for you. It sounds like you have a very supportive family back in the uk.

It was lovely to see you yesterday!
For the other members, bob and I met up with Kim and family at Auckland airport whilst Kim and co were picking up their hound and we were scouting around to see where we should pick ours up from today!! We got talking, and after a few minutes we realised that not only were we from the same town but that bob and kim39 are in fact bob and kim39 of forum fame!! I have to warn you that I was very close to a rousing chorus of "It's a small world after all!!..."

How is the dog?? Our's are okay, we got them this morning and were back in Napier for about 4pm. They were frantic and absolutely starving and to be honest they are really quite thin. Apparently they both had upset stomachs back in the uk, but hopefully they will soon fatten up a bit. :uhoh
They are fast asleep in the sun now (after two smallish dinners)!

We are finally online so will be back on soon posting lots of pics :D

Take care everyone
Bob's wife

Suzy Rimbo
4th December 2005, 07:07 PM
Hey!

So sorry to hear about your sister Kim, our thought are with you guy's, must be so hard.

So hope everything still goes ok for you all.

Love to you all, hope to see you soon

Take care luv suzy X X X

gil
4th December 2005, 07:43 PM
Dear Kim and family,

We are so sorry to hear about your sister. I lost my very closest friend to the same cancer, only hers took 10 years. There is a blesssing in there for you and your sister somewhere. You are in our prayers.

Great to hear all your updates and glad to know it's all going reasonably well. Thanks for all the info, it's so helpful to those of us waiting to follow,

Gil

Kim39
5th December 2005, 07:30 AM
Thank you all for your kind words and the PM's i have received, they do mean alot, especially being 12000 miles away from my family. This has been one hard decision not to go back, but i don't really want to give my Dad the added worry, so i am staying and taking time out on Thursday/Friday to find a welcoming place and take 5 mins for my thoughts.

Bob, quite spooky eh? of all the possible immigrants taking the time to find their beloved pets on that saturday afternoon, i have to bump into a fellow forumite, but above all else, its happens to be the same guy who moves out of my home town 1 week after me:nice1 What are the odds on that?

Kim

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