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Debbie
15th September 2006, 09:51 PM
Warning long post.
Well, it was so close to a disaster that Im still in shock.
Dorree Bonner, didn't take enough stuff away with them on the Mondays pack. The result was that they didnt finish until 5.30 on Tuesday and had to repack the lorry twice to fit it all in :wah My daughter sliped on a piece of packers wrap and split her chin open on the only piece of unwrapped furniture. So an emergancy visit to GP and 4 paper stitchs later....

We had planned to spend the last night at friends, OH drive back to the house in the morning, take the last rubbish to the tip, keys to estate agent, do post redirrect and finish up with the bank. Then on a train back to the friends house in time for our 5pm taxi to Heathrow.

All went to plan until at 12.30 OH phones me in a bit of a tizz saying he has lost his passport. I was calm to start with, you know the usual, ' right check your pockets', 'did you leave it in the car?'. But 2 hrs late and he had been back to the house, the tip, estate agent and nothing. I had already phoned the passport center and found out it would be a week before he could get a new passport and then we would need to send it to NZ house for a new Visa. :wah :wah
Long and very stress full story short, 3pm and in despiration OH was back to the post office for a second time and someone had found his passport in the street and handed it into the post office. Only problem now was that he didn't have enough time to get back to the house and to the airport. So OH went directly to the airport and left me to get 9 large bags, 4 hand luggage and 2 young kids in a taxi to the airport.

We called Heathrow 48hr before departure and was told not to arrive more than 3hrs before check in. We arrived with 2hr 45 and had to rush to get the plane. No chance to use the busness lounge that I was longing for. Heathrow was chaios, so slow and the info on the web page differed from what they were enforcing.
Note for those travelling with young kids, they didn't let me take any Calpol on the flight even though the web page said it was OK.

EVA air busness class was fab. I've not flown bussness class before so can't compare to anything but it was a great relief to be well cared for after such maddness. The food was great, staff attentive more space than we could use. They looked after the kids so well I didn't need any of they toys I had paked. The flight has 2 night sections in it so it was easy for the kids to sleep lots.
Note:- If you have kids don't have any drink in one of those no spill beakers during take off l( I did,) because the pressure change will cause it to pop its lid and spill juice all over the inside of your luggage.

The down side to the kids sleeping lots was when we finally got to Auckland they were running around like mad things and I could bearly function.
Note:- If you slip sweets or any food into your luggage rememer what bag you put them in because if you don't know that manic little sniffer dog will.

We had only been in the country 30mins and I must have looked awful because 2 compleat strangers offered us help with our luggage, checking we were OK for a taxi.
We used A2B rentals who picked us up from the airport and were a lot cheeper than others. So far they have been great, we have extended the rental 2x as we havent found a car still.

We got to the batch we rented and found a local store for emergance food shop. I have to admit I was horrified by the cost of food. The check out lady was friendly and chatty welcomed us to NZ, warned us about all the gangs and voilence that was happening now. :exit

I have to admit that our batch is great, meets out needs but Friday night I laid in bed wondering if we could possibly get back to the UK.

I haven't been to NZ before and the drive from the airport to our batch wasn't at all scenic. I will probably get a telling off for saying this but so far I haven't seen beautiful NZ. The houses are all a miss match of styles in-filled so that they are on top of each other and the dominance of wood boarded house reminds me more of an over grown static home site.

But that said, the jet lag is wearing off and Im getting more used to Auckland. OH has and great luck and landed a contract until Xmas so it looks like we are staying. Our landlords have been great pointing us to mainly music sessions for the kids.

I've learnt quickly that you don't shop in the local convience store. I wish I had brought my super large IKEA bag for use at Pak & Save. You buy store cupboard stuff in supermarket, veg and bread in corner stores.

We got online realy quickly via T3G wireless broadband for $49 +GST a month for a Gb. It's a luxury but means we can skype home.

We've been here a week today and Im resevering (sp blaim it on jet lag) judgement but we are here for now and going to make the best of it. We need to find a house as we only have another 2 weeks here and renting with a dog is difficult. OH starts work in a week and the kids desperatly need some form of routeen for the sake of my sanity.

I love the parks and the open spaces everywhere and the people have been great. The rest will grow on me, hopfully.
Debbie
P.S thanks to kiwidebs for the sanity call.

Diny
15th September 2006, 10:18 PM
Debbie - great post - from the heart. You sound totally shattered and somewhat bewildered. Don't worry, it's early days, everything will start to get abit easier soon. This is one heck of a learning curve and you're doing just fine.

Mixed emotions by the bucket load I bet? Give it time, it'll grow on you.

Diny

Lupin
15th September 2006, 10:26 PM
Sounds like a rather stressful last few days in Blighty. Hope things start to settle and feel more positive for you soon. Thanks for the honest post :)

jodieinchch
15th September 2006, 11:15 PM
Auckland is so different from the rest of NZ I find, its definitely the hussle and bussle of the city life that I don't find easy there. Here in the South Island I find that between the cities the scenery is beautiful. Give yourself chance to explore a bit.
Jodie x

NannyOgg
15th September 2006, 11:19 PM
Hi Debbie

Glad to hear that you made it safe and sound - we had a similar passport scare at the airport!

So where are you staying now? In Auckland? You really will need to tour to see any beautiful - until you do you are stuck in the city.

And I can thoroughly recommend theNorth Shore as a great place for the kids - and you. Not quite the city and not too far from the rural scenes.

PM me if you fancy a chat.

From one Kentish lass to another!

Love

Nanny x

jubjub
15th September 2006, 11:23 PM
Blimey Debbie, I would have had a fit! But you survived and you are here, I cant believe they did not allow you the calpol... we must have used ours at least twice each flight!

My hubby said that he had heard Auckland described as not typical of NZ, we have only been as far as Orewa or Hamilton so far so cant really comment with great authority, but you do get some stunning views if you take a drive out of town. I cant remember where you are but I have a feeling its west of the city somewhere, as it you in Te Atatu??

Take yourselves on a drive out to Piha beach, its an "interesting" road with quite a few bends, but its worth the journey, just dont try and swim unless you are near olympic standard, the currents are legendary, just enjoy the view and watch the surfers.

You have been through a lot to get here, its gonna take a few weeks to get your head round it, but at least there is a job offer in the bag, thats a fantastic start.

Cardiff Irons
16th September 2006, 05:44 AM
Hi Debbie. Glad to hear everything went smoothly :D.

The main thing is you arrived safely and you're OK. And remember, you're over there and we're still stuck over here :(.

I'm sure that once you've got over the jet lag, your stress levels have reduced to tolerable levels and you find your feet you'll be fine. And forget all these thoughts about coming back to the UK, you need to stay there until we get there to show us how it all works out there :nice1.

Take care and do let us know how it's going. Big hugs to you.


Steve

Angie and Mick
16th September 2006, 06:24 AM
HI Debbie

It sounds like you had a very stressful time, very lucky with the passport.

I look forward to hearing your views on NZ in the future.

Good luck

Angie

clg
16th September 2006, 06:40 AM
That did not sound fun but at least you made it. I remember our first visit here, the drive from Auckland airport was not very nice, but as others have said that is not NZ.

Welcome!!!

katandbob
16th September 2006, 06:47 AM
Wow Debbie, after a scare like that one with your OH's passport its no wonder your still not settled.......I kept tight control of all important documents, Passport was handed to My OH at the security desk and whipped back straight after etc... ;) as I KNEW I didnt want a similar senario going on!

Unfortunately travelling all that way and then having small children to look after when you land, and the rest of the hassle of getting settled you still wouldnt have had the chance to relax yet!

I know know that I picked the right choice coming out to NZ before our boys, as in the week that has Just passed I am supprised that my hair hasnt fallen out or gone grey at the least....its been a total stress fest!! AND they are teenagers...ooops forgot....teenager equals toddler :laugh

(if your wondering why i am on line when I am supposed to be moving...the above mentioned teenagers begged the internet be kept on till the men arrive...and I gave in!)...so I am sat eating my brekkie and catching up on the forum news.

When we arrived in Auckland, I thought a similar thing, but Marie said that the area around the airport was a bit older, and yes the houses are a bit 'missmatched' shall we say....I am definately not a city gal, and I couldnt live there, my favorite spots were...Mission Bay, Cornwall Park and the top of one tree hill (with no tree)....Oh and where Marie is going to be living....thats as cityfied as I'd get, its got an amasing view out the back yard of a pond, so its never going to feel too much of a city house.

SO my advise is take a deep breath, hopefully in a few weeks things will settle down a bit and start to explore a bit, the 'i' sites have loads of pamflets on areas to visit....then you will quickly find those 'Beautiful' places that you were looking for.....it just you have to drive out of the city to find them other than the parks.

THE SKY TOWER also will show you where they are...great views from up there! :D

Any way hopefully you will get some exploring in before your OH has to start work...I have found that theres never enough time at the weekend to get far now, and now with a farm to look after its going to get a bit more harder, but ho hum....we are LIVING here now not on holiday and we can go further afield when we are off for longer :)

WELCOME TO NZ

all the best

Kat

Smiler
16th September 2006, 06:54 AM
Glad you hear you made it intact. Your stress levels must have shot out your ears. :uhoh

Hopefully you can see more of the country soon, the airport drive is never good in any country. Explore places, don't rush into buying a house while you feel like this and you don't know the area's well enough. Do your own research and ask around or on here. (not telling you to suck eggs etc, just know what it's like when you're tired and want to be settled) :(

The main thing is you've arrived. Welcome to New Zealand. :cheers

marcia
16th September 2006, 07:26 AM
First and most important thing



{{{{{BIG HUGS}}}}}



What a nightmare you've been having, but you coped with the hassle and you are there. :clap

Remember all the planning and hard work you have done to get there, take your time to absorb everything and for things to settle down into a rountine before you allow yourself to make any judgements. Its gonna be rough for the first few months finding your feet and being out of your normal comfort zone - but look on it as an adventure and challenge, a new start to your life in NZ. (easy for me to say i'm still in my comfort zone - but hope someone will tell me these things when our turn comes!!)

I wish you and your family all the luck in world - and you will make it work I'm sure1

PS We didn't really like Auckland, not city people - but you don't have to drive too far to get out of the city and find beautiful beaches, you've a whole new world to explore out there - take your time! :)

zardell
16th September 2006, 08:07 AM
Goodness me Debbie - you poor thing.

Like Marcia said, what a nightmare.

Get a few bottles of NZ's best vino and try and chill (says she who's still got all this to come !!)

Seriously though, I wish you and yours all the very best and lets face it -after everything you've been through things must surely get better...... :)

{{{{{HUGS}}}}}

Julie

xx

willsken
17th September 2006, 12:47 AM
Sounds like you had a nightmare time of it in the last day! Glad the passport was found... just think how much worse it could have been! :uhoh

Like the other have said, there are plenty of beautiful places in NZ and just allow yourself time to see them. I am sure things will settle soon and you can get back to enjoying life again. You have just gone through the bit I'm dreading most about the move, the first week!!! :exit


Good luck with the rest of the settling process. :)

Soon2baKiwi
17th September 2006, 10:01 AM
Hello and welcome to NZ.

When we got here over a year ago I thought Auckland was horrible :uhoh To me, it looked run down and dingy. Tbh, it was mostly because to me a city was full of graceful old buildings and shiny new shops :D I just had never seen a city like this before. Now, I adore it. You must get across the bridge to see the North Shore - it's lovely out here, and is very child orientated. And lots and lots of beautiful views too. Good luck.

Debbie
17th September 2006, 08:59 PM
Thanks for your messages. it's not that I found Auckland horrible only the drive from the airport to our rented was not pretty. Our rented is good, has all we need, clean, close to walks for the dog, park for the kids. The time we went into the CBD I liked it but its not where I would want to live.The same goes for our rented, to industrial for me, (Im used to a house backing on the kent orchards). I always thought I would struggle a bit because I liked where we lived in the UK and it was very beautiful. Our move here wasn't about the scenary, (although it would help) it was about the oppertunity to test ourself and make changes to our lifestyle. Been here 8.5 days and still not made it to a beach but that will be solved tomorrow.
Thanks to Kiwidebs we have started to explore further afield and have found an area we like the look of that's suitable for us to live in. I think Im just the kind of person thats more at home with the more modern looking areas.
Debbie
P.S Went to half moon bay yesterday, (Very nice, shame it's not suitable for work) had lunch at the harbour and a stranger sitting opposite said "keep an eye on my wallet for me a mo" and went off (to the loo I assume). I do love the kiwi people, so friendly and trusting.

Singel
17th September 2006, 09:31 PM
Hello Debbie

:cheers WELCOME TO THE LAND OF LONG WHITE CLOUDS :cheers

Sorry to know of the nightmares that you have gone through.

So, time to relax and chill out in NZ ..........................

All the best to your and your family :nice1

Babette & Andy
21st September 2006, 06:09 PM
Welcome Debbie & family!! As others above have said, a miracle you've held it all together and got on the flight in the nip of time.

Agree totally with you, when we first arrive in AKL (6mths ago) I was very unimpressed with the areas near the airport, not really what I wanted to see after moving across the world for a life in what is known as a beautifull country. But then, as the supershuttle we used took us towards our area (Howick) things improved along the way.

Whereabouts are you now? You mention that you were at Half Moon bay marina the other day, we're literally 5min up the road at Bucklands Beach. Do let me know if you want to come out this way again. Our girls are aged 7 and nearly 4 and love new playmates. In any case, hope you'll be able to make it to the next AKL meet which is planned for 15Oct.

Best of luck with the settling in period, and do send me a PM if I can help you with anything (though I'm sure Kiwidebs has told you most already).

Babette

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